My Mondays are days when I exercise again because I don't purposely exercise over the weekend. My plans and things look different over the weekend, so it makes sense to just start my day with exercise while everyone is still sleeping.
I love getting back to school with my youngest, getting back in to the groove of schooling and routine.
I plan on Sundays for my week, not heavily, but just getting my brain wrapped around what I need to get done. Since we finished class days at our homeschool group this past Friday, my days are going to look a little different now. I'll be spending my Fridays differently, but still planning for next 17-18 school year when classes start again.
Mondays are our "clean up from the weekend" days. Wrappers that have been forgotten, stray papers, cups, that everyone has forgotten and a host of other things are cleaned up, put away, and things generally tidied up. As much as I try to clean up after myself when I get up from where I'm sitting, everyone else doesn't follow suit and it gets old reminding everyone of everything. So, we just clean up Monday mornings. It works!
Mondays are also days when I "start fresh" with cleaning up the bathroom that is ours. Why not all the bathrooms? Well, each of my young adults have their own bathrooms to tend to. At this time we're getting things together to get the poolhouse bathroom pulled together. Although there isn't a lot to do, there's still things to purchase to pull it together. When it is, it will be assigned to one of my young adults. 👍🙌
I need to also set aside time to plan menus. Strangely enough, having been a person who has planned meals up to 3 months in advance, I have not planned ahead for meals for quite a while. I would love to do that, but with the crazy schedules we've been having between my daughter and husband working strange hours and my sons doing Civil Air Patrol things, it makes planning quite challenging. Then add to that someone who just doesn't feel like eating what we're having, so they go out and buy their own meal. While that meal may be Ramen noodles and only costs $1, it pretty much makes me feel rather defeated at the time. I've made preparations and etc for healthy food, so they should eat it right? Well, I have to choose my battles. Come to find out, they come out to the refrigerator late at night to get something to eat and invariably reheat what we had for dinner, so it eventually gets eatten! I still struggle with this, though.
Having young adults in the house is challenging. I feel like I have to walk a fine line between being a drill sergeant and someone who gives them authorship of their chores and when they need to get done. There are issues there as well with mental health issues, ADHD issues, medication affects on some, so the juggling is challenging.
So, this Monday, I'm doing what I can do to ensure that the area I'm in charge of is clean, neat, and tidy. I am in charge of the whole house, yes, but my own chores are in the area of my office/sitting room, our bathroom, bedroom and hallway. If those are not clean, it is my fault. I need to be the one setting an example to those under my roof of routine, diligence, and getting things done. Yes, they are young adults and the expectation is for them to get their things done. Unfortunately, reminders need to be given. One day reminders will not need to be given. One day this entire house will fall on my shoulders to clean daily. When that happens my routine will change, but until then, this is how things are.
One day they will each have their own homes, by the grace of God. They will be in charge of getting everything cleaned up without our prompting. Hopefully, they will each see the need to keep things neat and tidy, eventually. For now, they are a work in progress, just like me.
Have a Blessed Monday!



































