This morning already, I've taken care of the kitchen windows on the inside. You see, I'm the detail person. It is my job to take care of each detail in the house. What about the every day things? Well, the children have been trained to vacuum, sweep, mop, do the dishes, unload the dishwasher, dry and put away dishes, wipe the counters and table, wash, dry & fold and put away laundry as well as hanging it out on the line. So if my kids can do all of this, why do I do anything at all? Well, as it goes with children, they don't see the details most of the time. This is where I come in.
The above schedule helps me to remember which room we're in for the week. Yes, I need reminding. I write things down so I don't have to remember it. With all the appointments, classes and responsibilities I need to take care of, the less I need to remember the better! This reminder is wonderful!
I take care of myself better when I know things are done and cared for. While "everything" isn't done at the end of the day, I know that I can see progress. I've learned that this is better than not seeing progress, or heaven forbid, things get worse. I don't kick myself in the pants for not doing xyz because I know it is going to be done on the above rotational schedule. So there is no guilt.
Does my house resemble "tornado" status at times? Yes! But, the wonderful thing is that with one hour of steady work from 10 hands, things are much better! 
Throughout the month I take note of areas that need my attention and when that time comes up, I take care of it then. This goes for the kitchen as well, unless there is a cupboard full of ants going after that ONE drop of honey that may have spilled. (Ask Me How I Know!!!!) Yes, there are times when you absolutely have to take care of those details that are right in front of your face. It is a wonderful reminder for this Momma to remind children who use the honey to make sure the bottle is wiped well before placing it back on the shelf. We don't want any more ants! Whew!
Now, I'm sure there is another question running through your mind right now, "Why not just clean the whole kitchen instead of small bits and pieces at a time?" I'm glad you asked! I have many many hats that I wear throughout the day that need my attention (call my name, demanding at times...) so in order to maintain my own sanity by making sure those attention grabbers are tended to, I try to make sure the 15 minutes it takes me to tend to details in the room of the week after the necessary people needs are cared for. Yesterday I wiped down walls. It took me a little longer than 15 minutes, but I was the only person here at home. After I was done I hung sheets out to dry and rotated the calendar above to the next 5-6 weeks. Hurrying in the shower, I shuffled off to get the kids from berry picking, bring them home, push the oldest along to the shower to get ready for an appointment almost 2 hours away. You see, the details were done in the morning. This morning it was the windows.
Tomorrow the calendar says "declutter." The refrigerator needs cleaned out and wiped down. I need to go through my drawers to see if there is anything I can put in the yard sale we're having over the 4th of July. I also have a junk drawer that needs some attention.
Thursday it says to "detail the floors." I'll have my daughter sweep the floors really good this afternoon, then I'll scrub everything after taking them to work in the morning.
What about my husband's days off? I try to spend as much time as I can with him when he's home. But, when he's in the garage, I try to get my own work done. Sometimes it happens. Other times there are other things that pull at me. The important thing is that I look at the calendar and make plans to do the work the Lord has given me and plan accordingly when I know I'll be busy. Thursday I plan to do my Friday work in the afternoon so that I don't have to worry about it when I'm spending time with my hubby. 
Will this system work for you? I don't know. You can use it, but feel free to tweak it to your own family, home and needs. Just pray about it and ask God for His direction. That's what I did!
Have a Blessed Day!
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